If you think you know me, read my blog and think again.
I'm imperfect and I'm Lovin' It.
I'm the only witness and the only person who can judge my life.
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哭的时候没人哄，我学会了坚强..
怕的时候没人陪，我学会了勇敢..
烦的时候没人问，我学会了承受..
累的时候没人可以依靠，我学会了自立..
就这样我找到了自己，
原来我很优秀，更可贵的是，世界上，
我只有一个，只有一个我！
渐渐地，我成熟了..
知道了人是被逼出来的..
只有压力才有动力，因为没有更大的不如意，
所以现在的不如意也是幸福的..！
想要成蝶的蛹就要破茧，
想要重生的凤凰就要蘖磐，
就要坚强，即使独自悲伤，
也不要去乞求怜悯..
嗟来的是廉价的，赶上的是便宜的，
在追求美好的同时不要失去自我，要始终做我自己，
只有自己才拥有 自己全部的风格，谁也模仿不了，真实的你没有盗版！
相信自己可以撑起属于自己的那片蓝天~
是马就应去驰骋草原，是鹰就该去翱翔天宇，而我只需要做好我自己！
生活所迫又怎样，环境不好又怎样，困难大又怎样，这一切都需要你自己去打拼！
拼不出来就找个地盘老实呆着！
这社会谁会可怜你啊！
不能主宰别人就管好自己，给自己个机会去重生，
被逼出来的你才是蜕变的英雄，把握好这个机会，去展示全新的自己，
跌倒了才懂得受伤的滋味.
爱上等于哀伤，宁可高傲的发霉，也不低调的凑合。
无聊时看看书，孤独时找个最好的朋友聊聊，
多疼疼自己，健康是一切的本钱。
不要过分去强求不属于自己的东西，
因为那样毫无意义，潇洒的放下该放下的..
Wear sunscreen.
Oh, never mind. You will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they've faded.
But trust me, in 20 years, you'll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked.
You are not as fat as you imagine.
Or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubble gum.
The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind, the kind that blindside you at 4 pm on some idle Tuesday.
Sing.
Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours.
Floss.
Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind.
The race is long and, in the end, it's only with yourself.
Remember compliments you receive. Forget the insults.If you succeed in doing this, tell me how.
Keep your old love letters. Throw away your old bank statements.
Stretch.
The most interesting people I know didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives.
Some of the most interesting 40-year-olds I know still don't.
Get plenty of calcium. Be kind to your knees. You'll miss them when they're gone.Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't.
Maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't.
Maybe you'll divorce at 40, maybe you'll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary.
Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much, or berate yourself either.
Your choices are half chance. So are everybody else's.
Use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it or of what other people think of it.
Dance - even if you have nowhere to do it but your living room.
Read the directions., even if you don't follow them.
Be nice to your siblings. They're your best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.
Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle, because the older you get, the more you need the people who knew you when you were young.
Prices will rise. Politicians will philander. You, too, will get old.
And when you do, you'll fantasize that when you were young, prices were reasonable, politicians were noble, and children respected their elders.
Don't expect anyone else to support you.
Maybe you have a trust fund. Maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse. But you never know when either one might run out.
Don't mess too much with your hair or by the time you're 40 it will look 85.
Be careful whose advice you buy, but be patient with those who supply it.
Advice is a form of nostalgia. Dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it's worth.
Since March i have been stay at australia for 9 month.
Message:
When you think of ur past love, u may view
it as a failure. But when u find a new love, u view e
past as a teacher.
In e game of love, it doesnt really matter who won
or who lost. What is important is u know when to
hold on and when to let go!
u know u really love someone when u want him or
her to be happy even if his or her happiness
means that u are not part of it.
Everything happens for e best.
If e person u love doesnt love u back, dont be
afraid to love someone else again, for u will never
know unless u give it a try. u will never love a
person u love unless u risk for love.
Love strikes in hurting. If u dont get hurt, u dont
learn how to love. Love doesnt hurt all e time.
Though e hurting is still there to test u, to help u
grow. Dont find love, let love find u. That is why it
is called falling in love because u dont force urself
to fall. u just fall.
u cannot finish a book without closing its chapters.
If u want to go on, then u have to leave e past as
u turn e pages.
Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won
by a single caress. It is a lifetime venture in which
we are always learning, discovering and growing.
e greatest irony of love is letting go when u need
to hold on and holding on when u need to let go.
We lose someone we love only when we are
destined to find someone else who can love us
even more than we can love ourselves.
On falling out of love, take some time to heal and
then get back on the horse. But dont ever make e
same mistake of riding e same one that threw u e
first time.
To love is to risk rejection; to live is to risk dying,
to hope is to risk failure. But risk must be taken
because e greatest hazard in life is risking nothing!
To reach for another is to risk involvement, to
expose ur feelings is to expose true self. To love
is to risk not to be loved in return.
How to define love; fall but not stumble, be
constant but not too persistent, share and never
be unfair, understand and try not to demand, hurt
but never keep e pain.
Love is like a knife. It can stab e heart or it can
carve wonderful images into e soul that always
last for a lifetime.
Love is supposed to be e most wonderful feeling.
It should inspire u and give u joy and strength. But
sometimes e things that give u joy can also hurt
you in e end.
Loving people means giving them e freedom that
they choose to be and where they choose to be.
Loving someone means giving him or her e
freedom to find his or her way, whether it lead
towards u or away from u.
Love is a painful risk to take but e risk must be
taken, no matter how scary or painful, for only
then u will experience e fullness of humanity and
that is
love.
Only love can hurt ur heart, fill u with desire and
tear u apart. Only love can make u cry and only
love knows why.
If u are not ready to cry, if u are not ready to take
e risk, if u are not ready to feel e pain, then u are
not ready to fall in love.
There was a time in our lives when we became
afraid to fall in love because every time we do, we
get hurt, then I figured that is why it is called falling
in love.
Whatever happened, dont give up! It is just a trial.
Have faith in urself and cheer up.
