做女人一定要经得起谎言,收得起敷衍,
忘得了诺言 放得下一切
最后用笑来伪装掉下的眼泪,
宁愿相信世上有鬼也不要相信男人那张嘴.



God didn't promise days without pain, laughter without sorrow, sun without rain, but He did promise strength for the day, comfort for the tears, and light for the way.

注意你的思想; 它們將成為你的言語.
注意你的言語; 它們將成為你的行動.
注意你的行動; 它們將成為你的習慣.
注意你的習慣; 它們將成為你的個性
注意你的個性, 它們將成為你的命運.



November 15, 2011
12:03:00 PM


許多的事情,總是在經歷過後才懂得。一如感情,痛過了,才懂得如何保護自己;傻過了,才懂

得如何適時的堅持與放棄,在得到與失去中我們慢慢的認識自己。其實,生活並不需要­這麼些無

謂的執著,們有什麼就真的不能割捨。學會放棄,生活就真的容易。

學會放棄,在落淚之前轉身離去,留下簡單的身影;

學會放棄,將昨天埋在心底,留下最美好的回憶;

學會放棄,讓彼此都能有一個更輕鬆的開始,遍體鱗傷得的愛並不一定刻骨銘心。


這一程情深緣淺,走到今天已是不易,輕輕的抽出手,說聲再見,真的很感謝這一路有你。


說過愛你的,今天,仍是愛你。只是,愛你,卻不能和你在一起,一如愛那原野,愛它,卻不

能攜它歸去。每一份感情都很美,每一程相伴都令人迷醉。是不能擁有的遺憾讓我們更­感眷戀。

感情是一份沒有答案的問卷,苦苦的最尋並不能讓生活更圓滿,也許一點遺憾,一絲傷感,會讓

這份問卷更雋永,也更久遠。 收拾起心情,繼續走吧!錯過花,你將收穫雨;錯過他,我才遇

到了你。繼續走吧,你終將收穫自己的美麗。 一個永遠不想失去你的人,未必是愛你的人,未

必對你忠心耿耿。有時只是這種腦袋不清的強烈的佔有欲者,他們才會做出各種"損人不利己"的

事情,還如此理所當然。 在心中如果有"曾經擁有就永遠不要失去"的偏執狂與佔有欲,越想獲得

愛的永久保證書,只會越走越偏離。 誰說喜歡一樣東西就一定要得到它。有時候,有些人,為

了得到他喜歡的東西,殫精竭慮,費盡心機,更甚者會不擇手段,以致走向極端,也許他得到了

喜歡的東西,但是在追逐的過­程中,失去的東西也無法計算,付出的代價是其得到的東西所無法

彌補的,也許那代價是沉重的,直到最後才會被發現罷了,其實喜歡一樣東西,並不一定要得到

它,有時候為了強求­一樣東西而令自己身心疲憊,是很不划算的,再者,有些東西是"只可遠觀不

可近焉",一旦你得到了它,日子久了你可能會發現它並不如想像中那般美好,如果你在發現你失

去的和­放棄的東西更珍貴的時候,我想你一定會懊悔不已,所以也常有這樣一句話"得不到的永遠

是最好的",所以當你喜歡一樣東西時,得到它並不是你最明智的選擇。 誰說喜歡一個人就要和

他(她)在一起,有時候,有些人,為了能和自己喜歡的人在一起,他們不惜使用"一哭二鬧三上

吊"這種最原始的方法,想以此來挽留愛人的人,但是這並不­能挽留住他的心,更有甚者,為了這

而賠上自己那年輕而又燦爛的生命,可能會喚起愛人的回應吧,但是這給他(她)帶來了更多的

自責與內疚,還有不安,從此快樂就會和他(她)­揮手告別。其實喜歡一個人,並不一定要和他

(她)在一起的,雖然有人說:不在乎天長地久,只在乎曾經擁有,但是並不是所有的人都會快

樂,喜歡一個人,最重要的是讓他幸福快­樂,因為他的喜怒哀樂都會帶來你的情緒的波動,所以

也常有這樣一句話:你快樂,所以我快樂。 喜歡一樣東西,就要學會欣賞它,珍惜它,使它更

彌足珍貴。 喜歡一個人,就要讓他(她)幸福,使那份感情更誠摯,如果你做不到,那你還是

放手吧!所以有時候,有些人,有時候,也要學會放棄,因為放棄也是一種美麗!
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September 25, 2011
10:47:00 PM


哭的时候没人哄,我学会了坚强..

怕的时候没人陪,我学会了勇敢..

烦的时候没人问,我学会了承受..

累的时候没人可以依靠,我学会了自立..


就这样我找到了自己,

原来我很优秀,更可贵的是,世界上,

我只有一个,只有一个我!


渐渐地,我成熟了..

知道了人是被逼出来的..

只有压力才有动力,因为没有更大的不如意,

所以现在的不如意也是幸福的..!



想要成蝶的蛹就要破茧,

想要重生的凤凰就要蘖磐,

就要坚强,即使独自悲伤,

也不要去乞求怜悯..


嗟来的是廉价的,赶上的是便宜的,

在追求美好的同时不要失去自我,要始终做我自己,

只有自己才拥有 自己全部的风格,谁也模仿不了,真实的你没有盗版!


相信自己可以撑起属于自己的那片蓝天~

是马就应去驰骋草原,是鹰就该去翱翔天宇,而我只需要做好我自己!

生活所迫又怎样,环境不好又怎样,困难大又怎样,这一切都需要你自己去打拼!

拼不出来就找个地盘老实呆着!


这社会谁会可怜你啊!

不能主宰别人就管好自己,给自己个机会去重生,

被逼出来的你才是蜕变的英雄,把握好这个机会,去展示全新的自己,


跌倒了才懂得受伤的滋味.


爱上等于哀伤,宁可高傲的发霉,也不低调的凑合。

无聊时看看书,孤独时找个最好的朋友聊聊,

多疼疼自己,健康是一切的本钱。


不要过分去强求不属于自己的东西,

因为那样毫无意义,潇洒的放下该放下的..


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September 07, 2011
11:18:00 AM


Wear sunscreen.

Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth.

Oh, never mind. You will not understand the power and beauty of your youth until they've faded.

But trust me, in 20 years, you'll look back at photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now how much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked.

You are not as fat as you imagine.

Don't worry about the future.

Or worry, but know that worrying is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing bubble gum.

The real troubles in your life are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind, the kind that blindside you at 4 pm on some idle Tuesday.

Do one thing every day that scares you.

Sing.

Don't be reckless with other people's hearts.

Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours.

Floss.

Don't waste your time on jealousy.

Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind.

The race is long and, in the end, it's only with yourself.

Remember compliments you receive. Forget the insults.

If you succeed in doing this, tell me how.

Keep your old love letters. Throw away your old bank statements.

Stretch.

Don't feel guilty if you don't know what you want to do with your life.

The most interesting people I know didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives.

Some of the most interesting 40-year-olds I know still don't.

Get plenty of calcium. Be kind to your knees. You'll miss them when they're gone.

Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't.

Maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't.

Maybe you'll divorce at 40, maybe you'll dance the funky chicken on your 75th wedding anniversary.

Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much, or berate yourself either.

Your choices are half chance. So are everybody else's.

Enjoy your body.

Use it every way you can. Don't be afraid of it or of what other people think of it.

It's the greatest instrument you'll ever own.

Dance - even if you have nowhere to do it but your living room.

Read the directions., even if you don't follow them.

Do not read beauty magazines. They will only make you feel ugly.


Get to know your parents. You never know when they'll be gone for good.

Be nice to your siblings. They're your best link to your past and the people most likely to stick with you in the future.

Understand that friends come and go,
but with a precious few you should hold on.

Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle, because the older you get, the more you need the people who knew you when you were young.

Accept certain inalienable truths:

Prices will rise. Politicians will philander. You, too, will get old.

And when you do, you'll fantasize that when you were young, prices were reasonable, politicians were noble, and children respected their elders.

Respect your elders.

Don't expect anyone else to support you.

Maybe you have a trust fund. Maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse. But you never know when either one might run out.

Don't mess too much with your hair or by the time you're 40 it will look 85.

Be careful whose advice you buy, but be patient with those who supply it.

Advice is a form of nostalgia. Dispensing it is a way of fishing the past from the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts and recycling it for more than it's worth.


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March 12, 2011
10:18:00 AM


After 2 months....
Time fly... everything seem just happen, flash back last year at this time.
i just came to australia... searching for who i am, searching what i really can be and searching what is my limit stand? after a year i still have any clue...


Found a friend and thought she will be "friend". end up what i see is making use of each other.
this friend really in the way? guess i"m still very naive... too soft hearted.
tired of being heart broken again and again.
will try my best to force on my study~

This coming 19 and 20 i going to have my rider license test... if i pass that i will have my own bike on the coming May or June~

I Miss you mum, family n My rainpoh~

to be continue


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December 03, 2010
1:13:00 AM


2/12/2010 4.30 pm
Po Po has gone.....


What a beautiful day it was when you went to those heavenly gates
No more pain and suffering.
We know you were eager and very happy to go.
The smile on your face and the peace you showed was priceless.
All the family came that day to say the things we needed to let you know it was alright.

we remember every moment that we shared,
seems like only yesterday,
or maybe it was eons ago,
It's really hard to say.

You are gone from us now,
but one thing they can't take away,
your memory resides inside our heart,
and lights up ours darkest days.

RIP Ours Dearest Po Po.
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November 26, 2010
10:15:00 AM

Since March i have been stay at australia for 9 month.
Being a student and working at the same time. it not easy at all, but i actually quite enjoy it.
faced the first winter in my life. understand difference culture, etc.....
Recently i heard that grandma having chest pain, and went it to hospital for diagnostic...
and the result is Blood cancer... and maybe she only has 3-6 month.
Prayed hard for her and hope that she don't suffer...

Right now i was stay with a England family and one of my school mate.
England named Ian. he is the house owner son, and my friend joey.
they all are very friend....

Hmpz...
I had just finish my first term in school.. and going back to singapore for holiday on this December. looking forward... can't wait to cuddle my mother. sister and Rainpoh.

So this is it... will update again...



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November 24, 2010
6:47:00 PM

Message:

When you think of ur past love, u may view
it as a failure. But when u find a new love, u view e
past as a teacher.

In e game of love, it doesnt really matter who won
or who lost. What is important is u know when to
hold on and when to let go!

u know u really love someone when u want him or
her to be happy even if his or her happiness
means that u are not part of it.

Everything happens for e best.

If e person u love doesnt love u back, dont be
afraid to love someone else again, for u will never
know unless u give it a try. u will never love a
person u love unless u risk for love.

Love strikes in hurting. If u dont get hurt, u dont
learn how to love. Love doesnt hurt all e time.

Though e hurting is still there to test u, to help u
grow. Dont find love, let love find u. That is why it
is called falling in love because u dont force urself
to fall. u just fall.

u cannot finish a book without closing its chapters.
If u want to go on, then u have to leave e past as
u turn e pages.

Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won
by a single caress. It is a lifetime venture in which
we are always learning, discovering and growing.

e greatest irony of love is letting go when u need
to hold on and holding on when u need to let go.

We lose someone we love only when we are
destined to find someone else who can love us
even more than we can love ourselves.

On falling out of love, take some time to heal and
then get back on the horse. But dont ever make e
same mistake of riding e same one that threw u e
first time.

To love is to risk rejection; to live is to risk dying,
to hope is to risk failure. But risk must be taken
because e greatest hazard in life is risking nothing!

To reach for another is to risk involvement, to
expose ur feelings is to expose true self. To love
is to risk not to be loved in return.

How to define love; fall but not stumble, be
constant but not too persistent, share and never
be unfair, understand and try not to demand, hurt
but never keep e pain.

Love is like a knife. It can stab e heart or it can
carve wonderful images into e soul that always
last for a lifetime.

Love is supposed to be e most wonderful feeling.
It should inspire u and give u joy and strength. But
sometimes e things that give u joy can also hurt
you in e end.

Loving people means giving them e freedom that
they choose to be and where they choose to be.
Loving someone means giving him or her e
freedom to find his or her way, whether it lead
towards u or away from u.

Love is a painful risk to take but e risk must be
taken, no matter how scary or painful, for only
then u will experience e fullness of humanity and
that is
love.

Only love can hurt ur heart, fill u with desire and
tear u apart. Only love can make u cry and only
love knows why.

If u are not ready to cry, if u are not ready to take
e risk, if u are not ready to feel e pain, then u are
not ready to fall in love.

There was a time in our lives when we became
afraid to fall in love because every time we do, we
get hurt, then I figured that is why it is called falling
in love.

Whatever happened, dont give up! It is just a trial.
Have faith in urself and cheer up.




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